Uncategorized – The Ripple Effects

What I Didn’t Expect

Here it is. “Valentine’s Day.” A day I was sooooo against celebrating, until this man. You see, John and I had the type of relationship that would almost make you want to vomit. Disney fairy tale, mushy, yucky, cute af, all that good stuff. When I tell you I’m the absolute LAST person on theContinue reading “What I Didn’t Expect”

Long story short: I’m different. Ripple effects come from everything that happens in life. After John died, any time someone would say, “Everything happens for a reason,” I wanted to punch them in the face. However, that phrase is what I live by now. I have to. Otherwise, I’d go insane. For example, the traumaContinue reading

The Victim Mindset

I try to be an understanding person as much as possible. When I say I’ve been through some shit, I mean it. People go through a victim mindset phase when they’re going through different traumas in their lives. That’s understandable. It’s a PHASE! It’s that consistent victim mindset I can’t stand! We have all beenContinue reading “The Victim Mindset”

Breaking Generational “Curses”

When I use this term, I’m most definitely not talking about some sort of spell. However, if that’s the case, I need to know who did it. We need to have a few “words” outside. Moving on! What I’m actually talking about when I use this term is Generational Trauma. Growing up for me wasContinue reading “Breaking Generational “Curses””

A Look Into My Real Life

Hi! I’m Amberly. I’m a wife, mom of three, and work in the entertainment industry. Yeah, my life is a little different, but I’m more than okay with that. If you fit the description of “slightly” anxiety ridden, feel like you can’t keep up, mom guilt all the time, or come from any type ofContinue reading “A Look Into My Real Life”